What people don’t know about money!
Hey! My name is Gemini Dhar and I have had many experiences with money and money making. Little did I know that my mental beliefs about money was actually driving the incoming and outgoing of funds. Until I studied deeply about money, money mindsets and creating wealth and not just the traditional idea of money
I was unaware and naive to the fact that it is a three generation outcome. Yes, three generations impact your behaviour towards money!
What your parents thought and did with money and what their parents taught them. Yes, from grandfathers, to you, there had been a invisible thread that makes you behave in a particular manner. Especially with your money.
People coming from wealthy family often lose the wealth they have inherited and some entrepreneurs coming from a very low income group make it big!
Money is important. We all realise that. But it's not everything. This is something all wise men and women have shared. You will also start to see that lot of people are not comfortable when they talk about money.
Everyone wants to be capable to be able to make the lives of their loved ones and themselves secure. Some are so focused on the fact that they want to secure entire generations!
Very few are from the category who want to build wealth. Money and wealth are co-related yet, they are two different paths. The money beliefs you have will increase, stop or reduce your money-making chances.
Diana, one of my clients, is a fashion designer and very good with her work, her brand was doing really good and suddenly from last few months, there was a dip and she was unable to sleep for days in a row, she took medication for anxiety and mostly ends up feeling low and fearful of the future.
This has impacted her relationship with her children and not to say made everyone anxious about her health, her mother couldn’t stop worrying for her and her friends are keeping distance from her as she started to complain and moan about every other thing in her life.
My phone rang Saturday morning in Dec 2019.
“Listen Gemini, I am very good with my work and I have been doing great suddenly I don’t know what’s gone wrong, every other day I mess up and have arguments that aren't necessary. My business is stuck, how can you help me fix it?" By fix it, she meant take charge of it.
After studying the entire case history, we put forwards a plan of action to increase sales, improve the branding and most of all she has a personal take charge victory plan.
While she worked in her day to day actions to get back in action, I worked on her beliefs about money, relationship, habits what surfaced was mentored and changed through some processes I tailored for her and gradually she realised that she had followed a pattern that gave her those negative consequences and blocked her from many opportunities.
Do we really know how a beliefs can actually make or break our future?
When you have a childhood where parents have struggled with money, you develop a mindset around those experiences. Which impact your decisions, actions, how you take risks, how you spend money and how you save it. When the money beliefs of your partner and you are not in alignment, they cause fights and stress among each other.
Lots of couples go through separation due to their money mindsets and the incompatibility of those mindsets and many partnerships have broken down due to different money beliefs. So, how do you know what kind of mindset you have?
For example, when you have seen scarcity of money in your home, you hold too much importance on making money and holding on to every penny. Making you: a MISER. if you have been starved of luxury, inspite of having money, when you have not been given the things you craved most as a child, you will grow up to someone who earns a lot yet spends it all on the things they love most.
It’s a deep science and can multiply your growth if understood, and rewired towrds your 5x growth .
Knowing where you are and who you are can empower you to use your strengths.
So what are your money beliefs doing to you?
Stagnancy or growth?
Take charge 5x formula is an outcome of 3 decades as an entrepreneur's successful experience and 6 years of non-stop learning about the beliefs that can be upgraded to power beliefs to empower you towards success.
A simple process is this:
Look into the habits of your parents yourself, your partner and your children.
You will discover a pattern when one member spends lavishly, the other is more careful of how he spends money m
When there is more expense than earning there is rift in couples.
When there is abundance of money yet the person is reluctant to spend will be a pattern he/she has developed due to past experiences.
So there are different money spending types. It takes a couple of sessions to identify the pattern and tweak it to your growth.
Think about this and share your comments and findings below this blog 😄
